Monday, July 16, 2012

Choices

I've been busy for a while, I still am. Busy with taking hold of my life, cause it was going a direction I hadn't planned, hadn't wanted. I always thought of myself as decisive, but now I see that I'm not. I can't make a simple choice. Well, but maybe the choices aren't that simple.
It's as if one part of my life has ended and from swimming in the pool I've moved to the sea. People are expecting so much from me, and I can't let them down. If I do that - I'm finished, my chance would be over. It's my philosophy of life that the choices you make define who you are and who you'll be in the future. And here I am, not being able to make a choice, not being able to say 'No'. So I remain silent.
We should choose wisely who we trust, who we tell our plans. And for that matter, I'm gonna shut my mouth a little.
And I understand that I can't run away from such decisions, but I'm still doing it, avoiding my problems, putting them aside, as if it was a solution.
It's not.

3 comments:

artista sem pena said...

I know what you mean...

scarlett said...

hi..I don't know whats going on there..but i hope u feel better soon..i thnk we shud take decisions according to our own conscience,best or not..at least its Our step nd choice.

said...

i know this feeling all too well. the fear that the consequences will be too great that you may not be able to endure them. but greatness can be good and bad. it's just easy to forget and let the fear swallow you instead.